Threshold Passages, Inc.

 Mentoring
About Mentoring
Journey-Men Groups
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Click here to learn more about the Mentor Training" Reclaiming Your Teenage Fire!" ~ Beginning the journey towards Mentoring.
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Click here to learn more about the Ring of FIRE" Working in the Ring Teenage Fire!" ~ Shredding through the Mentoring journey.
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The JourneyMen Groups

Following a boy's journey through the Rites of Passage Adventure Weekend, he is considered no longer to be a boy, but to be a JourneyMan or JMan. This is a symbolic recognition that he has begun a transition from child to adult.

The Journey to Manhood program uses group meetings, called JourneyMan Groups or JGroups, for mentors and JourneyMen to interact for a year following the initiation weekend. Journey to Manhood creates an environment in which positive male role modeling can take place over a long term.

The mentoring model followed by the Journey to Manhood program does not automatically assign Mentors to JMen. It is within a group environment that appropriately closer Mentor/JMan relationships are allowed to develop. All Mentors have been subjected to state and national criminal background checks.



Download Back Ground Check Application Forms
to start the process.

REACH YOUR GOALS

The annual JGroup schedule involves meeting regularly every other week with special additional quarterly meetings throughout the year. Mentors are asked to provide transportation for the JMen to and from the meetings.

JGroups can be classified either as an "In" meeting or an "Out" meeting...
"In" meetings are focused on integrating the life-skill concepts and tools that were introduced during their Rites of Passage Adventure Weekend. Through listening to the JMen and modeling healthy communication techniques. Mentors assist the JMen in preparing for living lives as men of honor. These meetings are generally held in an environment that provides little outside distractions and is a safe place for the JMen to open up and share about the issues that are important to them.

We practice LAAMB. We:
Listen to what boys express
Admire what’s great, unique, and worthy
Accept boys for who they are, how they are, where they are
Mentor boys on their path to who they are becoming
Bless the courage and the genuineness that we see

ENJOY YOUR LIFE AND HAVE FUN We don’t FRAP. We don’t:
Fix boys or perceive them as “broken”
Rescue boys from their predicaments
Advise about what to do unless specifically asked
Project our own boyhood issues onto others

"Out" meetings are focused on continuing to develop the bond of trust between the JMen and the Mentors and is fostered in a FUN setting. Outings can include indoor rock-climbing, lazer-tag, model rocket building, bowling, etc. The goal is to allow everyone to just be kids and be in touch with the value of "play."

"In" and "Out" meetings are alternated, with 13 of each having been experienced throughout the year.

As well, quarterly activities are planned and occur on a weekend. The thematic pattern is as follows...
Q1: Play (example: model rocket launch).
Q2: Renewal (JMan sweat lodge).
Q3: Service (Volunteer activities or Acts of Service).
Q4: Leadership (RPAW - JMen on staff).

JMen that wish to staff an RPAW will go through a screening process that includes an Elder Interview and mandatory acts of service. Once these requirements are met, JMen can attend an RPAW and help lead the process to initiate more boys into their journey to manhood.

Once a year has passed, the JMen can elect to continue with Journey to Manhood up until their 18th birthday at which time they are ceremonially recognized as men. To continue on with Journey to Manhood, the young man must pass a background check and be willing to participate as a mentor.

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News & Updates

COMMUNITY EVENT
TPI Union Blessing
This SATURDAY January 21, 2012 - Everyone is invited! Event focused on women and informative for men...
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EXPERIENCE IT
Mentoring Teenage Fire

Parents, teachers, youth service providers, etc. can find out more about our goals and methods…
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FAMILY SYSTEMS
Living With Teenage Fire

This intensive uses Systemic Constellation work to bring awareness and healing to family systems.
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MENTOR TRAINING
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Become a better mentor by becoming a better man. Discover the power hidden in your teenage past…
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LASER TAG! Open JGroups!
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LEADER TRAINING
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Step through the primary emotional literacy building processes used during our mentoring groups…
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As an all-volunteer non-profit, we need your time, treasure and talent to keep going. Please contact us to find out how to give your support. Or Staff with us. Or donate directly using Paypal.

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