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Should I do Threshold Passages? Questions and Answers:
What is Threshold Passages, Inc. (TPI)?
We are friends, mentors, role models, and guides to teens ready to take the most challenging journey of their lives.
What happens on the TPI weekend?
We guide you on the adventure of your life. The Rites of Passage Adventure Weekend (RPAW) is where the journey begins. It is challenging and exhilarating. Sometimes it’s tough and sometimes it’s fun. Many young men say it was the best weekend of their lives.
Is this worth my time?
That’s up to you. But if one or more of these is true for you, it probably is:
- My life works pretty well right now, but I want more.
- I’m struggling with issues or problems I don’t know how
to solve. I don’t even know if it’s POSSIBLE to solve them.
- I don’t like the way some men act and I want to find a way to
be different.
- I’d like to have a place - or another place - where I can be
totally myself and be respected for it.
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Is TPI about teaching me to be a man?
Teaching is not our thing. We ask you what you want in your life, and then help you make it happen.
Is this going to be fun?
Yes, the program is fun. But TPI is also very challenging.
How much time does this take?
The first thing you do with TPI is the RPAW. It begins Friday evening and ends Sunday afternoon. Following the weekend, you can participate in JourneyMen Groups (JGroups). Activities are scheduled twice a month.
How strong or smart do I have to be?
Strength and smarts don’t have anything to do with this program.
How old do I need to be?
Most boys are between the ages of 12 and 17. If you feel ready, you probably are.
What if my parents are sending me?
If your mom or dad or someone else is telling you to go on the RPAW or to JGroups, then you should probably stay home. We only want those who are ready and have made their own decision to come.
Is this some kind of religous deal?
We're a secular organization. People of all faiths and those who claim no faith are welcome.
If I do the RPAW, do I have to do the JGroups?
It's entirely up to you. You choose how much you want to be involved. If you get part way into the RPAW and want to leave, someone will drive you home. If you don't want to do a JGroup, just say "I'm out." No explanation is needed.
What are JGroups all about?
Sometimes we play paintball, lazer tag, go bowling, race Go-Karts, see movies, or go indoor rock-climbing. Sometimes we do activities like those on the RPAW. Sometimes we’re just a place to share what’s going on in your life and get support.
After I do the RPAW, can I be on staff?
Yes. After you’ve gained some leadership skills from the JGroups you can apply to be on staff for a Rites of Passage Adventure Weekend. Young men travel from all over the United States to staff these events.
What if I can't afford it?
If you really want to join us, we'll find a way. Sometimes we have sponsorships based on need. Otherwise, there's a payment plan. We're on a 100 year mission. That gives plenty of time to even things out.
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